We all want love. With exception of a few, we all want a loving relationship. Yet, why is the divorce rate so high and steadily increasing? Men and women spend their lives seeking the love of a perfect partner. It's simply easier to blame the decline of past relationships on the past partner. Why not there are not present to defend themselves. Plus it's just easier that way. Right? Wrong?
Human beings, by nature are creatures of habit. Furthermore, we are experiential. Thus we only learn through our personal experience. Once a behavior has been adapted it is set in our subconscious framework until needed. Others can give you great advice. That's all it is, great advice until you put it in practice for yourself. Rightfully so, what works for one person may not work for another. And as our decisions and thoughts are initiated and managed through our conscious and subconscious response systems.
The process of how we make decisions is just as important as the why we make certain decision. How do we make decisions on relationships and partners? You may sit and write what you want now in your life. May even journal write and discuss it with others. However unless you address the fact that your subconscious is making decision about your relationships based on those old tapes
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